tgl.h: add stdlib.h include

Initialize address_len before accept()

This fixes the error

```
gcc -I. -I. -I/usr/local/include -I/opt/local/include -I/opt/local/include/lua-5.1  -I/usr/local/include -I/usr/include -I/usr/include  -I/opt/local/include  -DHAVE_CONFIG_H -Wall -Wextra -Werror -Wno-deprecated-declarations -fno-strict-aliasing -fno-omit-frame-pointer -ggdb -Wno-unused-parameter -fPIC -c -MP -MD -MF ./dep/lua-tg.d -MQ ./objs/lua-tg.o -o objs/lua-tg.o lua-tg.c
In file included from lua-tg.c:25:
In file included from ./lua-tg.h:24:
./tgl.h:380:27: error: implicitly declaring library function 'malloc' with type
      'void *(unsigned long)' [-Werror]
  struct tgl_state *TLS = malloc (sizeof (*TLS));
                          ^
./tgl.h:380:27: note: please include the header <stdlib.h> or explicitly provide
      a declaration for 'malloc'
1 error generated.
make: *** [objs/lua-tg.o] Error 1
```

accept() could produce unexpected behavior in case the address_len is
uninitialized, e.g. return -1 with EINVAL

Refactored code a bit to better separation of library. Library can now be compiled without libevent.

Added libevent-devel to Fedora section

debian/control: Add build-dependency on libevent-dev

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