generate a self-signed certificate for PUBLIC_HOSTNAME and change DNS MX records to PRIMARY_HOSTNAME so it matches

set the DNS SOA RNAME domain contact email to hostmaster@PRIMARY_HOSTNAME and add an alias when creating the first mail user

Credit @shevski for early conversations around decentralizing email.

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put all DKIM on the primary hostname since that's the only one guaranteed to be actually hosted (DNS) here; give new users a Spam folder too