[JM-761] [JM-769] Buddy list integration is working well now.  Buddy statuses are working.  'my status' is not being sent to legacy service yet.  Other misc bugs.

git-svn-id: http://svn.igniterealtime.org/svn/repos/wildfire/trunk/src/plugins/gateway@4549 b35dd754-fafc-0310-a699-88a17e54d16e