OF-179: Publish presence updates for group changes

Distribute updated presence packets after changing MUC room affiliations
due to group membership changes

OF-179: Add group features for MUC administration

Introduces MUC group affiliation feature; allow users to join rooms
based
on group membership; distribute presence updates for MUC affiliation
changes due to group membership events.

OF-847: Bouncycastle 1.51 for JitsiVideobridge

OF-250: Allow to configure the groups of a user from the user profile

OF-832 Monitoring plugin fixes

Provide better defaults for Roster cache

The username2roster cache was use the Openfire defaults of 256k/6hrs
which is not optimal for a base installation. This sets the default max
size to 1M and set the expiry to 30 minutes.

Fixes roster group sharing when using the LDAP provider for users and
groups, by reverting part of an earlier fix (OF-779).

Fix settings for debug log so the admin UI setting is retained across
restarts. The system property "log.debug.enabled" may also be used to
manage this setting. If provided via openfire.xml, the property will be
migrated into the DB during startup.

Added support for clustering

* Fixed request conversations and messages
* Now conversations list is sorted
patch by koledas

Really route to all resources

OF-812 properly handle start attribute in list requests

OF-593 LocaleUtils: convert dots to underscores

patch by Paolo Manili

patch by Andrea Ratto

OF-807 + OF-670: Prep for 3.10.0

Kick MUC user when a corresponding packet is returned with any permanent
error condition (PacketError.Type.cancel).

Detect "remote-server-not-found" error condition and remove
corresponding MUC users

Initial tests included assertions for post-conditions that were not part
of the official API.

Prior commit used a local default encoding (and broke the build).

Allow international domain names (per RFC 3490).

Per PR review feedback.

Replace standard XSS filter with something more specific to domain name
validation for the S2S server whitelist/blacklist form.

OF-830: Properly handle LDAP search filters

Updated LDAP components to escape special characters in user and group
search filters, including JID (un)escaping where appropriate

OF-421: More cleanup for MINA API changes

Update version number and dependency change for OF 3.10.0 (due to MINA
2.0.x API change)

OF-843: Update Hazelcast plugin

Adjust xmldebugger for changes in the MINA 2.0.7 filtering API