(ui) fix bootgrid show order when editing data, first fill form, then show data, makes binding to events easier.

The chances that this gets fed a garbage value has potential to
be close to 1, but we are quite fond of our little init so if this
is needed do it the manual way (as it is already done, at least
for HUP).

PR: https://forum.opnsense.org/index.php?topic=4682.0

* enable tls certificate checks for some services

* more dynamic dns security

* additional security

* GratisDNS works -> enable TLS verify
* OVH works -> enable TLS verify
* citynetwork works -> enable
* HE.net Tunnelbroker works -> enable

Can't guarantee this is the final state, but opnsense-bootstrap
stopping over lingering repository information without the finger-
prints in place is not very helpful either.

Now we have a working copy of the file we need, it is already
reconfigured after install and it now also reverts FreeBSD.conf
back to its required state--which is off--to prevent problems.

Before:

[OPNsense.IDS.IDS.general.ips] value should be a boolean (0,1)

After:

[OPNsense\IDS\IDS:general.ips] value should be a boolean (0,1)

ui, upgrade jquery 1.12.0 to 1.12.4, eventually we might considering upgrading to a newer major version, but lets make sure we're using the latest 1.12 version first

This reverts commit 25d8428c and adds
normal enabled/disable indicators.  POST is all weird today, but so
far this looks good.

(mvc) csrf protection, not very likely to hit in normal situations, but when using legacy free applications, there might not be a csrf token leading to a denial of all requests.

(filter) force kill of filterdns, filterdns doesn't always listen properly to TERM, causing endless waits

(proxy) add a notice to inform the user about the need to download the list. closes https://github.com/opnsense/core/issues/1432

Add ruleset-optimization option in firewall settings. 

Further clean-up of generated firewall rules.